Perpairing to come home!

I had a great chat with my smart and beautiful wife the other day and she came up with the suggestion that we should start to perpair for my coming home. When I went to basic training I had a hard time getting back into the husband/father roll and it made for a not so easy relationship between us. I was very selfish and was hard to stop that mind set anfter 6 months of not having them around. Eventually things got better and then I had to go overseas and now we are in the same boat with me coming back but I am determaned not to fail this time as a husband and father. I want to be as prepaired as I can be for the coming home in just a few months. We are going to work on things through e-mails and phone calls and so when I get home we can make that as painless as possible. We are very open to suggestions and would love to hear from others about maybe what they have done or would do in the situation. Anyway I was so glad to hear her tell me all of her concerns which means we are one step ahead of the last time this happened.She is such a wounderful woman and God as truely blessed me with the greatest gift in the world. I love you honey and can not wait to get home and be able to haold you in my arms and spend time with you and Katelyn as much as I can before I have to go back to working again. I will be doing alot of praying and reading to stay as focused on this goal as I can. I promise this time honey I will not fail you and show you just how much I truely love you and how important you and Katelyn really are to me.